Towards Thriving Cover

May 21, 2020


Home is Not Always Safe, we are seeing the proof.

In early March, the COVID-19 global health pandemic infected Idaho, seeping into the Treasure Valley, bringing fear and trepidation as we heard reports of death rates, job losses and financial collapse worldwide. At the WCA we were also paying close attention to accounts of another significant impact—the reports of rising rates of domestic violence spanning the globe. As it stands today, our fears have been realized.

While we searched for N95 masks, gowns and cleaning supplies to buy, we put plans in place. With the health and safety of our clients and staff always at the front of our minds, we significantly stepped up our cleaning schedules at the downtown Crisis Center and at the shelter campus. We began daily health screenings and gratefully accepted cloth masks made by members of the public. We made the difficult decision to close our thrift shop and halt in-kind donations of any kind. We sent most all non-program staff home to work remotely and upgraded our IT systems to support their ability to continue our outreach and fundraising efforts.

However, keeping our doors open and continuing to provide critical services to those impacted by domestic abuse and sexual assault was a priority for us–stopping was never an option. We know the dynamics of abuse and that many in our community are impacted each day. This situation, a pandemic with a “stay-home order” and others isolating for health reasons, job losses, children out of school and more—all allow for more individuals to be isolated at home, in unhealthy, abusive and dangerous situations with mounting stress each day.

We had to work fast and figure out how to continue to provide support and services virtually, at first telephonically and then also via video upgrading to the Zoom Pro, HIPAA compliant platform. Our residential and community clients continued to receive counseling, case management; financial empowerment and client advocacy through alternative delivery—but our staff did not miss a beat.

When the Ada County Courthouse closed to the public on a Friday afternoon, the WCA as a whole pivoted immediately and the Court Advocacy team was ready to assist with filing civil protection orders at our downtown Crisis Center by Monday morning. Still today, the team helps those seeking domestic violence and stalking civil protection orders file paperwork electronically as well as supports them over video and telephonically with their emergency and two-week hearings. The team also offers safety planning and legal referrals both telephonically and in person at the Crisis Center.

As we track our numbers, we are seeing evidence of increased domestic violence rates in our community and if our calls are any indication, the severity seems to be on the rise as well. While the overall number of calls handled by WCA Client Advocates in the first quarter this year was down slightly, the number of calls specifically related to domestic violence was up 93% compared to the first quarter last year. As we enter Phase 2 of “Rebound Idaho”, here at the WCA the number of calls to our client advocates related to DV has increased even more, 194% from April 2019 to April 2020 and the numbers for May look like they will be even higher.

We have also seen a significant increase in the number of emergency intakes into our secure emergency domestic violence shelter—which means the lethality risk is so high for these clients that they bypass any waitlist and get right into shelter as quickly as possible. For perspective, last year we averaged about one emergency intake into shelter a quarter. Right now, we are averaging one per week.

Without the ability to do in-person educational presentations in the community, participate in tabling or events, we have had to get creative in our outreach.

We knew we had to get the word out and keep conversations going about domestic abuse and that home isn’t always safe, and how people can help and support someone they care about. Most importantly, we have to keep spreading the word about our hotline and our services being available. We’ve taken to our social media, asking our media partners and our community partners to help us spread the word. We’ve gone live on Facebook multiple times each week and had the same conversations we might have in a classroom or at an outreach table. We have sent out a leadership update each week to keep our supporters apprised of what we are doing to keep our staff and clients safe, but also to let them know what we are seeing and how they can get involved.

The support of our community has been immediate and humbling. As we look to the next few months we know that the need will only continue to increase and we are hopeful that our community will continue to be there for our clients so that we cannot just maintain but increase our services to meet the demand we know is coming.

Bea Black photo Bea Black, CEO
Women’s and Children’s Alliance.

Serving Idaho’s Youth Survivors of Dating and Sexual Assault

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Young people experience sexual violence; for instance, about 14.9% of Idaho high schoolers were forced to carry out sexual activities they did not want to do by someone there were dating within the past year[1]. This article offers some considerations in providing informed and supportive services to survivors of dating violence and sexual assault in Idaho who are under 18 years old.

Programs serving minors Idaho law empowers programs to offer services to survivors under 18 years old who experienced dating violence or sexual assault. Although there are few laws discussing the rights of minors in Idaho, it is clear that Idaho law allows domestic and sexual violence programs to offer a broad range of services to minors without a parent or legal guardian’s prior consent. However, Idaho law requires parental consent for programs house minors. Programs should also be aware that there are legal and ethical restrictions when providing medical (including mental health) services to minors.

Recordkeeping, Privacy, and Confidentiality Young survivors need to trust Programs and their advocates in order to fully access the services needed to be resilient. The way in which Programs handle and store their client’s information impacts trust. Programs should only keep records absolutely necessary to provide services. Programs may gather information to ensure a person qualifies for programming, for funding-required record-keeping purposes, and to ensure continuity of care.

However, because advocates and Programs do not have legal privilege in Idaho, detailed note-keeping should be avoided as it may be subpoenaed or subject to other forms of legal discovery. While advocacy services are protected from some level of disclosure by VAWA funding restrictions requiring confidentiality (which do not differentiate between adult and minor clients), if records were discovered through a legal process it would be up to a court to decide whether or not the records must be disclosed.

Mandatory reporting laws in Idaho Because of the likelihood of encountering a situation in which your organization is required to make a mandatory child abuse report[2], it is important that all minors seeking services are aware of what may happen to information that they disclose. If possible, prior to disclosure, Programs should provide minors information on the definition of abuse with clear, accessible language and pace. Explaining terms and concepts in ways a person would understand who is not familiar with the terminology used within government and legal systems is a good practice. Also explain what Programs have to do if a client discloses reportable information to them. At the same time, a Program can provide information on services and referrals without disclosure of specific information. This will enable the minor to decide what information to share and how to proceed with accessing help and support.

This Idaho Coalition and its attorneys are here to provide Programs with even more detailed information about serving minors. This article should not be used as a thorough analysis on the issues touched upon, but only a highlight some important issues for Programs to consider. For more information, please contact Molly Kafka at the Coalition at

[1] Idaho Dept. of Ed. “Idaho Youth Risk Behavior Survey,” at 47 (2019),
[2]I.C. §16-1605

This project was supported by Grant No. 2016-WR-AX-0008 awarded by the Office on Violence Against Women, U.S. Department of Justice. The opinions, findings, conclusions, and recommendations expressed in this publication/program/exhibition are those of the author(s) and do not necessarily reflect the views of the U.S. Department of Justice.

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Molly Kafka

Three Things to reach out to me for:

  • Questions about legal services for survivors of sexual and domestic violence
  • Recommendations for Boise-area hikes
  • Ideas on how to transform our minds and hearts towards collective liberation
  • Accessing Emergency SASP Funds

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    Resources are often difficult to keep track of as the availability of services and funding opportunities advocates learn about and access on behalf of survivors are regularly shifting from grant-cycle-to-grant-cycle and year-to-year. With that in mind, we would like to remind our programs and advocates about the availability of SASP emergency assistance. This is a small funding stream which is allocated through the Idaho Coalition’s ISP SASP grant specifically to help provide support to individuals impacted by sexual assault.

    SASP Emergency funds may be accessed by Idaho Coalition member programs, those who receive SASP funds, as-well-as program members who do not currently receive SASP funds.

    We also recognize that many victims/survivors of sexual assault may not access crisis centers, but may be interacting with community organizations and agencies who are working with individuals with disabilities, culturally specific agencies, or with LGBTQ organizations. These organizations may reach out to your program looking for support, sexual assault services, and other resources; please know that these agencies and organizations may also access these funds when looking to provide emergency support on behalf of individuals impacted by sexual assault.

    Emergency assistance may include, but is not limited to: counseling, medical assistance, rental or employment assistance, civil legal assistance or other approved expenses related to the victimization.

    SASP Emergency assistance requests may be made directly to, Lacey Sinn at the Idaho Coalition. Each request will be evaluated to determine that it fits within the SASP priority areas and eligibility requirements and to ensure there is adequate emergency funding to support the request. Upon approval, reimbursement will be made directly to the program or community organization/agency for the request.

    Please click here to review current SASP emergency funds guidelines for submitting a request.

    If you have any questions regarding SASP Emergency Assistance Funds, how to submit a request, etc. please contact Lacey.

    Lacey Sinn

    Three Things to reach out to me for:

    • SASP and SASP Emergency Funding
    • Transitional Housing
    • Idaho Coalition Store and Materials Orders
    • Idaho Domestic and Sexual Violence Book Club Discussion

      The Idaho Coalition Against Sexual & Domestic Violence invites you to join one or more of the book discussions for advocates this spring on a selection of books that can inform your work! We will purchase the books (paperback, e-book or audio book if available) and mail it to your home or work address. The books and the dates for the discussion are listed below:

      • The Beginning and End of Rape book coverThe Beginning and End of Rape: Confronting Sexual Violence in Native America (2015) (232 pages) by Sarah Deer – Part I Friday, May 29th and Part II Friday, June 5th 1 PM PT/2 PM MT – 2:30 PM PT/3:30 PM MT (90 minutes: 2 sessions – Broader Community Discussion) Violence against Native women is historical and political, bounded by oppression and colonial violence. This book is aimed at engaging the problem head-on—and ending it. Deer provides a clear historical overview of rape and sex trafficking in North America, paying particular attention to the gendered legacy of colonialism in tribal nations—a truth largely overlooked or minimized by Native and non-Native observers. She articulates strategies for Native communities and tribal nations seeking redress and describes how tribal self-determination efforts of the twenty-first century can be leveraged to eradicate violence against women. Her work bridges the gap between Indian law and feminist thinking by explaining how intersectional approaches are vital to addressing the rape of Native women.
      • My Grandmother's Hands book coverMy Grandmother’s Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies (2017) (300 pages) by Resmaa Menakem – Friday, June 12th -1 PM PT/2 PM MT – 2:30 PM PT/3:30 PM MT (90 minutes – Broader Community Discussion) In this groundbreaking book, therapist Resmaa Menakem examines the damage caused by racism in America from the perspective of trauma and body-centered psychology.The body is where our instincts reside and where we fight, flee, or freeze, and it endures the trauma inflicted by the ills that plague society. Menakem argues this destruction will continue until Americans learn to heal the generational anguish of white supremacy, which is deeply embedded in all our bodies. Our collective agony doesn’t just affect African Americans. White Americans suffer their own secondary trauma as well. So do blue Americans—our police. My Grandmother’s Hands is a call to action for all of us to recognize that racism is not about the head, but about the body, and introduces an alternative view of what we can do to grow beyond our entrenched racialized divide.

      Sign up for these books here!

      Early Years Conference: Call for Proposals

      child looking through magnifying glass Call for Workshop Proposals

      The call for 2020 conference for the November 4-5, 2020 are now being accepted.
      Every two years, the Early Years conference attracts more than 350 attendees seeking actionable information, new strategies, and best practices in the field of early childhood education and intervention. We invite you to consider Early Years’ 2020 as a forum to share your expertise. Please familiarize yourself with the additional information for the Call for Proposals below before you prepare your proposal.

      Conference Tracks: Workshop topic to address one of five conference tracks and explore “what’s new and what’s working” to help children ages birth to eight and families:

      • Building Family Strengths: Identifies and supports the unique and specialized needs of children and their families.
      • Health/Safety and Well-Being: Emphasizes the importance of supporting and nurturing young children, including safety issues, child abuse and neglect, prevention, and intervention.
      • Early Care and Learning: Focuses on early child development, research, and educational practices that enable infants and young children to reach their maximum potential.
      • Program/Professional Development: Highlights program models and best practices to enhance professional work with young children and families.
      • Infant/Early Child Mental Health: Centers on the social and emotional development of children from birth through age five and their families, including key issues, relationships, risks, and best practice interventions.

      Selection Criteria: The Early Years’ 2020 Workshops subcommittee will select proposals that best exemplify the following criteria:

      • New Material – New pioneering content and ideas.
      • Actionable Information – Content that attendees can put into practice immediately.
      • Best Practices – What works, what’s effective.
      • Interactive Presentations – Engage the audience in active learning.

      You can submit proposals here!

      Training & Events

      Considerations for Advocates Serving Non-Citizen Survivors of Domestic and Sexual Violence
      June 8, 2020 | 1:30-3PM MT

      This webinar will discuss cultural, sociological, and economic barriers among non-citizen victims of partner/family violence to seeking help experienced by legal advocates among their clients who must share intimate information with them.

      To register for this webinar, please email Molly Kafka at

      Idaho Coalition Store Materials

      Engaging Voices Website Store *** ALL material orders are currently on hold, if you have questions, please do not hesitate to reach out. ***

      Reminder that shipping for all material orders made by Programs on the Idaho Coalition website store is FREE of cost, please use the below coupon for all orders.

      Visit the online store to view current Idaho Coalition materials available for order. For store questions, please contact Lacey Sinn.

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